Thanks
for coming to our blog. If you’re here, you’ve heard that Danny is in heart
failure and has been placed on a transplant list. Many of you know our story,
but for some of you it is new. So here it is from the beginning.
Danny
and I got married in November of 1995 when I was 20 and he was 21. We had been
married for two and a half years and were joyfully expecting our first son,
Daniel. He arrived on April 27, 1998. Within minutes of his delivery, he was
struggling to live. We were given the heartbreaking news that our little boy’s heart
defects were incompatible with life. Just 24 hours later, we held and kissed our
baby boy goodbye.
We were
blessed to become parents again when Maggie was born on September 4, 1999 and 2
years later when Charlie was born on December 18. Life
had settled into a sweet routine of raising our children. But that was short
lived.
In July
of 2002, Danny was bitten by a mosquito. In southern Louisiana, this is nothing
to call home about. But with this mosquito bite came West Nile Virus. Danny
fell seriously ill and was unable to work for several months. We filed for
bankruptcy and had to move our family into our parents’ home.
Every
cloud has its silver lining. Ours was that during his struggle with West Nile
Virus, Danny came to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior in a more passionate way than ever before. As we clawed our
way out of bankruptcy, we were also learning how to depend on the Lord for our
every need.By 2010, our credit was restored and our American Dream continued as
we purchased our first home and 2 new cars. Four months later, Danny lost his
job when the company he worked for closed their United States Division. We are
forever grateful to our family that had our back during this scary time.
It
wasn’t long before Danny got a job with a wonderful company, Antares. He was
able to continue doing what he does best: Computer Programming. I returned to
school to get my teaching certificate.
On July
5, 2011, flank pain suddenly incapacitated Danny. We rushed him to the ER
thinking it was a kidney stone. The CT scan revealed news we were not
expecting. The “kidney stone” was actually a blood clot to the left kidney. In
the cardiac workup that followed, Danny was diagnosed with viral
cardiomyopathy. The doctors
determined that the West Nile Virus which Danny had in 2002 had in fact
attacked his heart muscle, causing the cardiomyopathy, an uncommon, but known
complication of the virus. …One
small mosquito…
In
hindsight, we look back and see symptoms that we did not recognize. Running on
the soccer field with Maggie and Charlie left him exhausted. After cutting the
grass, he would come in totally beat. We just thought he was tired; after all,
he worked hard and wasn’t getting any younger.
Really
what was happening is that he was in early stages of heart failure and his
vital organs were not getting the oxygen that they needed.
In the
fall of 2011, Danny’s cardiologist referred him to Ochsner Transplant Facility
in New Orleans. Danny had been on ever increasing medication to try and reverse
the heart failure without any real results. Because his damaged heart is so
ineffective at pumping, he’s been at risk for sudden cardiac failure. To
protect against this, an ICD (combination pacemaker/defibrillator) was placed
in his heart.
8/25/13 |
Since
that time, Danny’s been monitored by his cardiologist and the transplant team
knowing that transplant might very well be in his future. Over the past year,
we have felt that Danny was declining. In April, he was able to very slowly
walk a quarter of a mile. Not too long ago, he got home from work and was so
short of breath and exhausted that Maggie and I carried him into the house.
The
first week of August 2013 was
terrible. Danny couldn’t sleep lying down and was having trouble breathing in
any position. He saw his cardiologist in Baton Rouge who was horrified by his
condition and immediately sent him to the ER of the transplant facility. He’s
been in the Cardiac ICU since August 9 and every day has been different and
challenging for his team of doctors.
Danny
is a unique patient in that his heart failure has progressed rather silently.
In most patients, as failure progresses, you can hear telltale signs when you
listen to their lungs. But Danny wasn’t retaining fluid in his lungs; he was
retaining fluid throughout his body masking the progression of this
disease.
In two
short weeks, he’s gone from being treated with oral medications to relying on
more potent IV medications. The severity of his condition was brought home
earlier this week when his IV was inadvertently turned off for a few minutes.
Danny experienced cardiac arrhythmias that would have been fatal had he not had
the defibrillator implanted. Danny described the feeling of having the
defibrillator go off in his chest as a ninja’s sucker punch.
It’s
been very sweet when he has rare moments of levity. Another that stands out is
when, with IVs attached to both arms, he raised one and then the other and
said, “Look, Tricia, I’m a marionette!”
It’s
uncertain right now whether or not Danny will stabilize enough to go home and
wait for a donor heart. The doctors have set a limit of mid-September at which
time the current plan is to place a mechanical assist device to help his heart
pump.
We
know, whether with a donor or mechanical heart, that open heart surgery is just
weeks away. As we struggle with the emotion of all this, it’s hard to not worry
whether West Nile Virus will cause us to have to declare bankruptcy for a second
time.
I have
taken a leave of absence in order to be with and take care of Danny during this
scary time. I don’t know whether I will receive any benefits because I have
been with the school district for fewer than 12 months.
The
costs associated with heart transplants are staggering, and there are thousands
upon thousands of dollars worth of costs that will be out of pocket for us.
People
are asking what they can do to help. The prayers, the childcare, the many acts
of kindness are a godsend. It is so humbling to us to know that the Lord has
put it in the hearts of some of you to help us financially. You will never know
how truly grateful we are.
To that
end, we have set up a PayPal account and our contact info with PayPal is helpdannysauer@gmail.com
Those
of you who know Danny know how internet security conscious he is. He is very
comfortable with PayPal because it is a secure, encrypted service for
transferring funds. Using this site allows 100% of the funds to be allocated
toward Danny’s medical expenses. If you don’t have a PayPal account, you can
easily set one up at PayPal.com
More
than anything, we ask for your continued prayers.
We look
forward to hearing from you through this blog as we post updates here.
I am so glad you have begun this blog. We are praying for Danny and your whole family. I'll keep following.
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Bettejean